Variables in Meeting a New Fun Person When out

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Of course be well dressed and well groomed. 

 Guile

 Flirting choices: humor, charisma, sexuality

 Tongue-in-cheek humor

 Voicing and cadence, pauses

 Subject matter

 "The little question" that stops them

 The compliment

 Admiration, if any

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