Why Many Relationships Fail

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The woman or man that was once a turn-on does not become a turn-off, but instead just not a turn-on. Tres triste. Systems connect or not, and also blink intermittently. 

 Is the nature of things to have little desire or concern until you have so much all of a sudden that you become nearly ferocious in your passion for the attainment? Saramago was 90 when he became a writer, and won prizes. 


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